Instead of sitting around moping about Hannah being gone, I decided I could either get productive and take down the rest of the Christmas decorations or else take advantage of Jim being out of the house so I can hog the computer. Let me see, work or tell stories? Hmmm, guess I'll hang out here a bit longer.
I realize that in continuing to share stories I face the increasing likelihood of blowing my cover and being revealed as the perfectly imperfect mother I really am. Maybe I'm just taking my friend Lila's advice and example in her book, Diving off the Pedestal. (If you want a good read for the new year, you can buy this book on Amazon by clicking this link.)
So, bomb story number two happened about eight years ago when some friends returned to Oaxaca. The boys had disappeared with their friend, Nathan, who by then was 17 or 18 years old, I think. Mine were younger teens. The adults were innocently visiting in my living room when suddenly a loud explosion shook the house and rattled the windows. The other mother very sheepishly said, "Oh, dear, I hope your boys don't have any gun powder. My son knows how to build a bomb!"
Well, in fact my boys owned quite a stash of gun powder which they used for making their own fireworks (I know, I know - bad mother! what was I thinking?). We all ran outside quickly to see what damage had been done when we saw our next door neighbor (a retired school principal) walking his dog. This is the funny part. He sees our distress and surely figures out why we are alarmed, but only calmly informs us, "If you are looking for the boys, I told them to take that bomb up on the mountain. I didn't want them scaring my dog!" What was he thinking?
Looking up toward the mountain, sure enough we saw the poof of smoke from the explosion. Of all the dangers I had envisioned with hanging out with an older friend, it never occurred to me to warn them against bomb building! They were hooked. The first time we went to the US after 9/11 we had lengthy discussions about NOT mentioning things like guns, bombs, and explosives, especially at the airport. Still the subject would come up among friends, and I'm convinced many boys are jealous to this day of the wild and free childhood my crazy children enjoyed. I'm just thankful they made it to adulthood with their sight and all their fingers intact. God is truly merciful.
A good missionary would be able to come up with some spiritual application to this story, but honestly I can't think of a thing. Any suggestions?

7 comments:
Jamie -
You ARE an inspiration. :)
As for spiritual applications.. hmmm...everything is permisible but not everything is beneficial???? :)
Thanks for your comment. No, I don't know you, I am actually friends with Jacque Black, and I saw your blog through the link on her blog. Yes, K.P. Yohannen has some really good writings, I can't remember now if I have read, "Living in the Light of Eternity." I read a lot! Blessings!
Love the stories...my husband and I call those "unparening moments" the reasons we will NOT get parent of the year. Our conversation to admit guilt of something unparenting goes like this... "Uh, honey, I blew the chance for the Parent of the Year Award today..."
Thank you for sharing...
Spiritual Application...I'll get back to you!
Unparenting moments... I love it! May I borrow that along with the spiritual application if/when you think of one?
Hayes Zoo: your "everything is permissible" is good, too, but really, is bomb making permissible?
I'm still proud that I rattled the windows from 2 miles away...
That very same Nathan, our son, didn't end his career as a "bomber" there in Mexico. When we got back to NC in 2001, he created another masterpiece of a bomb with black powder and other ingredients. He then proceeded to set it off in a concrete culvert behind our house and it made a big boom. He then went on about his other mischief, but. . . a neighbor lady was scared by the sound and called the Union County Sheriff and reported that a boy had set off a bomb in a big pipe near her house... now, you need to understand at that time there had been a bomb scare at the local high school so there was a look out for the culprit around the county. This story got out and the local Charlotte media reported in the newspapers, TV and radio about "the Waxhaw Bomber" who was on the loose. Meanwhile, the sheriff's deputy came and paid a visit to Nathan, who told him about the black powder and his experiences in Mexico and the deputy laughed and left. So, our Nathan continued his career after Mexico, to NC and then for 5 years as part of the 82nd Airborne in Korea, Iraq and Afghanistan, blowing up lots of things... I think he has finally gotten it out of his system now. . .
Thanks for adding your comments, Phil. That puts things in perspective, doesn't it? Nathan always was the ringleader, wasn't he?
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